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I’ve held onto this story because of Shame. It’s SO ingrained in us. I’ve been ashamed. I thought it was my fault. Sexual harassment can be complicated. But it can also be crystal clear.

I moved to Nashville 5.5 years ago. I work as a software tester. He was put in a position of leadership. He trained me. He was nerdy. I called him Ned, as in the Simpsons’ neighbor Ned.